Before you arrive
- Confirm the time, duration, price, location and service type by SMS.
- Arrive sober, clean and at the agreed time.
- Ask about anything important before the booking rather than assuming.
Client guide • 18+ only
Respect makes a better booking.
A booking is private adult time with a real person. Services are agreed, consent remains active throughout, and every provider decides her own boundaries.
Consent is ongoing
Paying for a booking does not remove anyone’s right to say no, pause or stop. If a provider says no or asks you to stop, you must stop immediately.
Only agreed services
A profile describes available options, not an unlimited entitlement. Anything not confirmed is not included. Pressure, bargaining after a refusal, stealthing or attempts at unprotected contact are not accepted.
Time and privacy
Booking time starts at the agreed arrival time and includes introductions, showering and getting ready. Leave promptly when the booking ends and respect the privacy of staff, other clients and the premises.
Behaviour that ends a booking
- Ignoring a boundary or instruction
- Roughness not explicitly agreed
- Drugs, intoxication, threats or intimidation
- Refusing to leave at the end of time
- Recording, photographing or identifying a provider
Safer-sex rules
Condom and hygiene requirements are mandatory. Asking once for clarification is different from repeatedly pressuring someone after a refusal. Attempts to bypass safer-sex rules may be referred to Police.
Lifetime client bans
Secret Liaisons may refuse service or issue a lifetime ban where conduct is inconsistent with our terms, New Zealand law or a provider’s boundaries. A lifetime ban means no future bookings through Secret Liaisons or our associated operations.
Serious behaviour may also result in a trespass notice, preservation of relevant records and referral to Police.